女生會做的10件傻事[轉]

1.在他不回短信时，不知不觉帮他找了很多没回短信的理由，

手机没电？

没钱？

没信号？

但是永远会等,一直的按亮手机屏幕。

2.记住他无意的某一句话或一个小愿望，然后偷偷帮他实现，

不论实现的过程多坎坷，

没有想到过放弃，

只是希望看到他惊喜感动的表情

3.看到他和别的女生在一起是,第一个想法就是胡思乱想,

但是之后,又用一个"不会啦,我想多了"作为结束,即使还是有些不爽

4.就算吃醋也不敢在他面前表现过多，

因为怕他觉得你小心眼，不要你了。

所以后就默默不开心，自己哄自己

5.就算真的生气吵架了，不理对方，

你发誓一辈子不理他，然后默默变成一天不理他，最后他还是不理你，

所以你软弱了，主动短信他，：“我错了。”

6.或者生气不开心时，你的闺密朋友怎么劝你都没用，

他的一句“怎么了？”，

或者随便一个问候关心，你就傻呵呵的笑了。

7.在上课时用笔在本子上写他的名字，怕别人发现，

改用拼音缩写，反正自己能看懂是关键。

8.做那些小测试，自己做完试着帮他做一遍，

看星座时把他的“顺便”看了

9.那些你给他起的外号，在心里默认只有你可以叫。

很多事情默默为他做了，不说

10.只要那些别人说怎样许愿会灵的办法你都试试，

许的愿都是，：“我们要永远在一起。”

或許，當一個女生戀愛時，眼中最在乎的就是對方。如果她不愛你，她也不會在乎你。她不是無理取鬧，她只是害怕擔心。請做到不讓她胡思亂想。:)

人要有希望，有愿望；人可以失望，但不可以绝望

get inspired by a UTP senior's story...it's his real story...
can that count as a miracle?sort of i think :)
it's really motivate me...thank you very very much :)
you really helped me a lot :)
i will always remember what u have told me...:)




going to kl tomorrow...start of my new life...
new life?yea...my college life...
study a-level in tarc...
i hope everything will be fine...:D




i always believe what javier told me before when i leave UTP...
-God says to you:"I have a plan for you, a plan not to harm you but to prosper you."-
i always remember that and yea i believe in it...everything has its own planning...




no matter what,don't regret on what u have chosen...
believe and do your best:)




Pray and He will answer your prayer :)

[轉載] 兩篇有意思的文章:)

做男朋友的基本标准...

第一条：老婆的手机号，必须背下来。

第二条：老婆发短信，必须回。

第三条：老婆上QQ，在线必须主动说话。

第四条：答应老婆的事，对老婆的承诺，必须做到。

第五条：不准背着老婆和别的女的有暧昧关系。

第六条：不准和别的女的有亲密动作，要对老婆诚实。

第七条：不准对老婆发过大的脾气。

第八条：生老婆的气，不能超过1个小时。

第九条：想老婆了，要主动给老婆打电话、发短信。第十条：生气时，不准不理老婆，让老婆担心。

第十条：不准对老婆提无理要求。

第十一条：要主动关心老婆。

第十二条：必须要学会如何心疼老婆

。  

第十三条：老婆过生日，必须在老婆身边。

第十四条：如果实在不能陪着老婆过生日，必须打电话或发短信或者给点意外的小惊喜也行。

第十五条：手机必须24小时开着机，如果老婆找，必须随时都能让老婆找到。  

第十六条，出门必须带着老婆，不要把她自己扔在家里，

第十七条，要让老婆感到安心，不要让她为你担心，要为她照顾好自己，

第十八条，要关心老婆，嘘寒问暖都不能落下，

第十九条，要关心自己的家人，还要关心老婆的家人  

第二十条，对老婆的朋友也要热情招待，

试问，多少的男朋友做到了?

我想要這樣的男友~

1~生病时...会骂我"为什么你不好好照顾自己???为什么生病?你知道你生病我有多心痛的吗?"然后~给女朋友一个暖暖的拥抱~

2~不听话时...会说"乖啦~听话~不然不理你了!!!~"

3~做错事时...会说"我告诉过你几次?不要再做错了~知道吗?"然后抚摸着我的头

4~不理你时...会说"宝贝...为什么你不理我?没有你我好空虚~"然后拉拉我的手...撒撒娇~

5~跟你抢东西时...会说"好啦~宝贝~不跟你抢了~等下你受伤~"

6~走在路上...会拉着我的手或搭着我的肩膀

7~想我时...会打给我...发信息给我说你想我

8~把我送你的东西..好好的保存起来

9~每天说最少3次的''我爱你''

10~每天至少抱我一分钟

11~每天打电话给我...因为我想听你的声音

12~一定要有一样情侣的东西

13~手机背景一定是我们的照片

14~不能不理我~

15~要记得我是你的唯一...你只可以爱我一个~!!!!!

女生奢望的不多。只要你能做到這裡面其中的幾條，她就會很開心了。但是，你能做到嗎？:)

let the photos tell you the story :D

 this is the taekwondo little gal!!><

 isn't she cute?haha :)

 a little boy with a little teddy =x

 yeah~group photo^^

 my erhu senior,eho!

 breakfast in ipoh,ming court dim sum~

so high...LOL o.o 

security guard:u got food on ur hand,cnt go in!XDDD 

 we are 1 family:))))

yummy yummy~~~

the cake and ice-cream are nice>< 

 杯盤狼藉！LOL

 lata kinjang waterfall~!

praise and worship~ 

 water baptism of brother avalon and elden~

 abstract art!XDD

 waterfall!scene from a higher place~

she is yen pinng :) 

 brother chee lim and his cute daughter,cyndee!:))

UTP Jan 2011♥

after 2 weeks

after 2 weeks,i am back in utp agian to visit my friends!hahax...
take a 10 hours bus this time-.-" the bus went to sitiawan...and then change bus and turn back to seri iskandar...LOL...waste time and at first i thought the bus will go to lumut...scary man...=.=""


~friday~
child-pro charity night!
nice performance and the taekwondo little girl is super cute!
met with many seniors and their 1st reaction:"(shocked)ehhhh,you are here!when u come back de?why come back?then when you go back?" hahahaha...surprise for you all...XD


~saturday~
had a nice day with steam kias in ipoh! =D
went to ming court dim sum,the lost world of tambun and moven peak steamboat!
full of laughter and great memories with you all although spend a lot of money!-.-"
although face some problems when planning this trip on fri night,but still it is worth...:)


~sunday~
went to lata kinjang with hope church church-mates!
it is really nice there and the waterfall is so beautiful!
and congratz to brother avalon and elden for the baptism!=D
went to kampar to have curry chicken bread as our lunch!


will upload some photos of these 3 days in my next post! :)




at first i thought will be quite boring if come back to utp.
but it's not!
although steam kias are busying with their drama,portfolio and study for final exam,they still spend a wonderful day with me!awesome guys!




played 2 days of water(tambun and waterfall) and i ended up with fever-.-" guhhhhh...
thanks god i am feeling better now...:)


going back jb tonight...i will really miss you guys...
if really plan well,see you guys again in malacca on 9 may during you all sem-break!
looking forward to it guys!






after 14 days,finally can see you again...but you are still so busy...3 days already...i still haven't got a chance to have a nice chat with you.

what's that?

一直很想打一篇長長的。不過很可惜的，我很懶惰。=x



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18嵗了。今年很簡單的過生日。不過我很喜歡。
愛死你了林芷妤。哈哈。


晚上家人唱生日歌，一起吃蛋糕。
突然想起，我完全記不起最後一次和他們一起慶祝生日是幾時的事了。
完全沒印象。
。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。




thanks san san for the phone call and the birthday song laaa^^although that time i was sleeping-.-" so happy and shocked that you called me...and told me you still remember you owe me english version birthday song...duhhh......utpians you all really make me very touched nahhhhh...........>.<
received 6 phone calls this year...
and missed 2 calls...due to the busy line...hahax...
this year has the most phone calls><
out of these 8 calls,6 are from utpians...duhhhh...thanks u guyssssss :)



sometimes you have to know what i wanna to express.
sometimes you need to realize it yourself.
please.
BE CARING.
BE ALERT.




please know that what she really needs.
give her a hug.and tell her everything will be fine.
what a girl needs.is as simple as abc.
don't ask so much when she is sad.
just be her side.and tell her.
"you still have me.i will always be your side to support you."
stop asking for reasons.you will not get the answer.
because.
she just need your consolation.
she just need you to have a good chat with her.
she just need you to coax her,tell her you love her.
after she calm down,she will tell you the reason if she want to.
she is willing to do anything,just for you.
she may not have a mature mind as you are,as the quote say:
“戀愛中的女人是愚蠢的，可她們偏偏喜歡踏入這泥沼裏，而越陷越深。”
so,do this everyday.she will not get tired or get bored of all of these.
-care her.
-talk to her.
-be the one who start the conversation with her.
-tell her you miss her.
-tell her you love her.
-call her "dear" or whatever nicknames between you both.
-share everything with her.
-tell her what you have done today and what's your planning next.
-don't keep saying sorry to her.in her deep heart,she may not want to forgive you.
-don't keep saying thank you to her.it's a strange feeling.
and the most important one,
-no matter how late it is,tell her good night and give her a good night kiss.


give her a smiley face.








duhhhhhh......其實我有很多事想抱怨。
算了吧。
這就是。人生。
要相信。
明天會更好。








i can't forgive you always.
i can't tolerate you always.
i know.i can't......




11 days.i miss you.:(

=]=]

yea.i am happy yet disappointed.
i am waiting for your birthday song.
but......

u fall asleep ady i think?

not even a birthday wish...
i try not to sigh on my 18th birthday...




thanks zhi yu,han way,crispin and sin siang for the birthday songs!!!
thanks a lotsssssss!!!
and from the phone calls,my conclusion is:utp-ians are very long-winded-.-" hahahaha XD
lance u still owe me a birthday song ahh...sorry line was busy so u cnt reach my phone...XD






seriously,i am super duper disappointed...

moodyyyyyyy

i am super duper moody recently... =(


had a tiff with him last night...
i just want......you listen to me...why you can't?*sigh*
i have many things wanna tell you......*sigh*




do you know every time after tiff with you,i feel so bad and i cry...T__T i cry.i blame myself to make you angry.i cry.i feel guilty to make you angry.T______________________T





can i make a birthday wish?*sigh*


i wish you are here to celebrate my birthday with me.
this wish is impossible to achieve.*sigh*
okay.i change another 1.*sigh*


i wish you can call me and chat with me at 11 something on 15 april.
i wish when the clock strike 12am on 16 april,you can sing me a birthday song.
*sigh*
i wish you will.i wish you can.i wish.........
*sigh*






*dangggg*
something knock on my head,and it's remind me:
"wake up.be clear-headed.it's just a wish in your heart.simple yet hard to achieve.for him."






*sigh sigh sigh*




a post full with sigh...*sigh*

:)

yea...as expected...i left UTP...
i miss those times...very much...very very much...
currently rotting in home...




i am in a dilemma...
what's in my mind?
*sigh*

lost

today is last day of march.
my last post was on 9 march.about 3 weeks din update le.
sorry peeps :)
tomorrow is april's fool day.1 april 2011.
time flies.
a quarter of a year has passed.


i duno y i "seem like" so busy recently.
was in jb last week.
to get back my spm results.
wad can i say?
regret?
blame myself?
but it's not use now.
yea.i was blaming myself.
i disappointed everyone in the family.
i tot i will get a scolding,but it did not happen.
daddy said it's okay,at least it's better than my bro's.
but i feel so bad.
uncle and aunt all said,go appeal for the subjects.
they said i am unlucky.
sorry.i reli feel bad for it..................................................
even bro console me by sms-ing me tat day frm s'pore.
i cried after read tat msg.
he said i have do my best.it's fine.everything will b okay.
i...reli feel bad that i disappointed you all..................


what can i do next?
what i want to do next?
seriously i am lost.
i wanna do my best.but y i cnt.
i dun believe in myself now.
i am lying to myself.
i am cheating myself in my own way.
which way should i choose next.
there are many diverged roads.
i duno.whether if i can turn bac if i choose the wrong 1.
there is no much time left now.


next choice.
i hope it will b the best for me.
everything will be alright?
i hope so.


tests 2 are cuming in 2 weeks time.
but i reli duno wad am i doing recently.
totally lost in every lecture.
wad's wrong wid me actually?
even myself duno d ans...


i noe i am emo recently.
but dun ask me y.
i duno.i reli duno.
thks all d frens,seniors who ask me wad had happened.
thks all of u who comment in my status to ask me cheer up.
tel me if i have any problems can share with u all.......
you guys reli make me warm...
although some of us juz noe each other for 2+ months...
and some of d sec sch besties...
thks for letting me know u all r still with me although we r apart for few months ady...
i reli miss u all..miss those days..
but life still go on.
all d best to u all^^






going penang tomolo~my 2nd time to go thr in these 17++ years...
abt half more month,i am officially 18.
LOL :)
happy advanced birthday to me:)

hoursss

3 more hours i will be sitting for pre-calculas test.:(
6 more hours i will be walking in pasar malam.:)
9 more hours i will be sitting in the bus back to jb.:))
17 more hours i will be in jb.wheeee:))))


i am very eager to go back now><

but i don't want do get my spm results><



recently like to use "><" this emoticon.
influenced by someone.duhhhhh........-.-"




i like him,i think......:)

ahhhhhh....................

First time reject a person.

And I feel so bad about it.:(

Sorry…really sorry if I hurt u…
it's too sudden for me...

............

test started...and i just screw my 1st test-physics.

ahhhh!!!whyyyyyyyyyyy..............T____T

careless mistakesss!and derive the wrong formulasss...

what am i doing???T_T

chemistry and pre-calculus next week....

hope that i will not screw this both tests again...

for sure physics will drop my gpa=((((((((

going back jb next wednesday night...!!!!

plan some outing eh my frenssss.....-.-

lim zhiyu i miss you so much=(((
you didn't visit me when cny breaks...:(

spm results ahhhh...gonna release soon...T_T

ganjiong o not?i dunno...

whatever the result is,it couldn't be change anymore...

life still need to go on...

should i pray that i will get matrikulasi or i should pray not to get it?

a friend said,i am different from the past...
i said,people do changed...


but i did not realize that i changed.
i am just stressed...i think...






even you change to a person that i did not know before,i think...
tat decision really...unbelievable...

damn,i screwed everything.;(


what if i said i miss you?

23022011

goshhh...become darker ady larx!!>< just because of took part in treasure hunt!!the weather was too hot T_T and my legs almost patah ady larx...walk a super duper long distance today!utp is so big...LOL...today route:chancellor complex => somewhere near mosque-.- => sport complex => v6 park => kopetro(wrong place!><) => pocket D => kopetro => pocket C => v5 basketball court => v6 park......it's so damn tiring to walk from v5 to v6!!=.="" i think we spent about 15-20 minutes to get there...>.< had a new experience today!canoe!it's fun but seriously i don't know how to control the direction...haha...luckily ming jia knew a bit about canoe,abuden i will be stucked at the center of the lake...XDD and so sorry to him because when i row then i will change the direction to the wrong 1...XD so most of time i didn' move,just let ming jia to row...he also asked me don't move,otherwise he needed to use more energy to turn back to the right direction...hahaha...he was so tired to row the canoe...heehee>< legs got bruises again T_T so pain!thanks to dennis law and the stupid coconuts...LOL...this treasure hunt remind of me during secondary school time...the annual camping activities...night journey and treasure hunt of sjam ssi are always so fun...XD...and of course more scary because both are at night...so miss those time we had fun together :( this treasure hunt is muchhhh moreeee tiring because utp is really big T_T
yesterday took part in chinese calligraphy competition...it's long time ago since the last time i wrote chinese calligraphy...i think it's more than 1 year i didn't touch it ady...XD so brave for me to take part in it...XD for sure i can say i wrote till very ugly...=.= reasons:1.)too long didn't write ady  2.)the calligraphy brush is too hard to use=.="i couldn't write properly T_T
although haven't announce the results,but i think my prizes for both competitions are gone T_T
btw,i had fun in both activities...this is just more than enough in everything :)
Red Sonata Fiesta is awesome...love it to the core!XDD
still got concert night on this coming Friday...looking forward for it!especially the chinese orchestra performance...all the best to you all and hope that it will be an exciting and successful concert night!hahaha...:)
tests next week and next next week!scared scared scared!!!!!!!!>.<
my life now:full of lectures,tutorials,labs,assignments,homework,quizzes,tests etc etc..........................................!!!!!
gonna interview a person on this coming saturday,i hate this stupid homework!!-.-"


it's almost 3am now and i am going to sleep now...having class at 8am...good night :))

.........................

*crying*
lim zhiyu where are you?T_T








當女人處於心情低潮時，麻煩不要開玩笑刺或刺激她，你會讓她情緒崩潰。


這種玩笑不是玩笑。






damn it damn it damn it.

3-2-1

Nothing is impossible, now only I believe of this.

doesn't feel anything or it's just a lie to myself?

If I said I only have 3 weeks, what would your reaction be?

I will think a lot, definitely.

Cannot bear, it’s just a matter of time. 

19022011

spent half day in ipoh today...so tiredddd>< spent a lot today...over hundred man...my money all gone...i am broke now T_T watched a movie today,sanctum...hmmmm...i rated 6.5/10 for it...>.< breakfast went for ming court dimsum...not bad not bad...nicer than jb 1...LOL...lunch went to an ji bean sprout chicken...LOL...i am so full till skip my dinner...haha...had a nice day with my friends=)) it's really fun...XD






儅一個人到毫無選擇的地步時，他該作出怎樣的抉擇？冷靜、思考、理智、不把個人因素放入考量之中、不帶任何感情，不拖累他人，當前的局勢最重要。可惜偏偏固執、不聼任何勸告卻會害了一個人的一生。當然，在遇到困境時，團結才是最重要的。不信任、不體諒、不服從，那可是會害了自己還害了別人。緊張與害怕，是最大的敵人。






spm result gonna release soon...so scared about it...i don't want it to be released...don't let me know my result pleaseeee!><


already adapt to the life here.
but a phone call,a decision will make it all different.
gonna start to countdown.


i don't know what the hell i am talking about.

12022011

had a nice badminton game with cheryl today...
exhausted but really contented...
so long didn't play like this lerx...
play about 2 hours i think?just because to wait for the stupid rain to stop...haha...


almost faint after cycle from sport complex to V1D today...=.="
cycle too fast and use too much energy i think? XD
a car honk at me and the driver wave to me during on the way back to V1D...
still wondering  who is that sia...haha...
sorry i couldn't see your face not because you drove too fast...
it's because the windscreen of the car is too dirty...XDDD
it's time to clean the car le okay?XD


dislike the food here very very much ><

happy cny

going back to hutan utp in 3 more hours...T_T arghhh...many homework didn't do...cham liao...
i still wanna cny holidaysT_T give me more holidays please! ><
gonna busy again!